Families of transitioners

I offered what support I felt capable of, but it wasn’t enough for him

This matters to me because I have watched transgender ideology push their demands wider, from just wanting to pee to being a woman, meaning adult human female. I cannot not believe in biological sex, and it is the most sensible way to separate people. I have joined Twitter as an anonymous writer so that I…

I had the experience of finding myself married to a severely AGP man

I care deeply about this for a number of reasons. Firstly, as a survivor of early sexual abuse and extreme male violence I have lived my whole life in the shadow of experiences I have has because of my biological sex. These experiences have shaped me and in many ways they have limited me. I…

Seeing her young daughter being compelled to call her dad is one of the worst abuses of power I’ve witnessed

I feel that my niece’s interests weren’t served by becoming absorbed by the gender movement. It hasn’t helped her development as a person and she has made no progress in dealing with her problems and becoming a self sufficient person. Seeing her young daughter being compelled to call her dad is one of the worst…

My daughter is transgender

My daughter is transgender. I founded Our Duty, joined in with Fair Cop and others. Too many negative consequences to list. The biggest, I guess, is not being able to work in my usual field. Keith , Co-founder, Our Duty

My sister is transitioning into a transman

I care as a woman who has been raped about maintaining safe spaces for women. I care as the mother of a girl that she will be able to fully participate in sports without being edged out by a man who was subpar against other men. I care because my sister is transitioning into a…

He left some very large women’s clothes in a cupboard where I was bound to find them

I am a transwidow. For 14 years I was married to a man who did everything to destroy my love and in the last 4 years taunted me mercilessly. He wanted me to hit him so that he could go to the police and prosecute me for domestic violence. I did not. Finally he left…

They do not know about the men demanding to shower with woman and girls in their changing rooms

In addition to the natural fairness, and women’s entitlement to their own safe spaces, my niece was inculcated into the trans cult -she is lesbian, on the autism spectrum and spent 2+ years in therapy before deciding not to go down the transmen route and has instead become a non-binary pan-sexual lesbian. Tranns-children is child…

Strangers have been given access to and coached my daughter to delete her childhood and replace her future with their transgender story

I care because my 12 year old daughter announced she is trans and is socially transitioning 11 months ago. I care because strangers have been given access to and coached my daughter to delete her childhood and replace her future with their transgender story. I care because my 12 year old daughter has been asking…

I have concerns since my sibling transitioned from ftm

I have concerns since my sibling transitioned from ftm (female to male). I have not stated my feelings as I feel I would be targeted. No negative consequences currently, as I have carefully avoided this. Sophie , Adult human female

I am a trans widow and now have a trans identifying son

I am a trans widow and now have a trans identifying son. I have told my story in detail and will share it as much as possible. I have spoken out to friends, associates and anyone how show an interest in engaging. I have been cut out of my son’s life, I have been cast…

Now I’m going to try and be as strong again

My ex had autogynophilic tendencies and used this as part of decades of domestic abuse including sexual. After being told that he was most likely a malignant narcissist with psychopathic tendencies i started to see parallels with TRA attacks that I’d started to see happen. He had enforced language changed etc from very early on…

My brother wants to transition to be my sister. In the beginning we were all supportive

This matters to me because my brother wants to transition to be my sister. In the beginning we were all supportive – even my elderly parents . This period lasted two years and then as we began to learn more and question (especially me about women’s rights) my sibling grew aggressive. Our refusal as a…

I struggled with my gender identity in my teens

I struggled with my gender identity in my teens, I have been sexually assaulted and took part in a celibate marriage with a person who used me as a depressing up dolly and later came out as trans. I have talked to people, but people call me names. My youngest daughter gets very angry with…

My husband moved out to live his new life as a woman

Those twelve months were a hell of lies and insults. I was told that I should be okay with him transitioning because I “had too much testosterone to be a woman, so should be happy for him to take the female role.” And there was a myriad of other examples of misogyny that peppered his…

My biggest struggle has been explaining to my 3-year old daughter where grandad has gone and why she had to become gran

I care because human rights are important for everyone. It has become very personal as I now have a daughter, my dad recently identified as trans, I work in mental health which includes young people who identify as trans and females who have been victims of male violence. All of these people have rights -…

If we cannot name our oppression, we cannot fight it

This feels like such an important issue for me for several reasons. I have personally experienced the ways in which trans identifying males entering female only spaces completely changes the dynamic, effectively silencing female voices, even when the purpose of the space has been designed precisely to elevate women’s voices. I see the violence and…