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I have helped set up and organise groups and events

This matters to me because women must have the right to define ourselves and  to our own spaces, so we can organise politically for our rights, and be physically safe.

I have helped set up and organise groups and events, spoken in social media, and posted other people’s blogs and information, written to parliamentary select committees,

I’ve been given the silent treatment and spoken of very negatively in general terms. But I don’t speak up as much as I would like, in order to avoid further abuse.

Roberta, 1970’s second wave feminist,  lived in women’s communities, single parent. socialist

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Being woman is not a gender or men’s idea

This issues is matters for women because being woman is not a gender or men’s idea. Women is oppressed by men. Not because we ‘identify’ as women we suffered because we born biologically women

I posted a i.g post and ig stories about Why transgender (Genderism) is harmful for women

One of my friends DMed me and said that ‘ you are ignorant as fuck because you currently living Asia so you can’t understand how important to understand transgender ‘ and she said that if you are feminist you MUST understand a transgender.

And 10+ ppls cancelled my account.

JuyoungI instagram:crisp_summer_air /naver(st.korea) blog: young_in_wonderland, Korea

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I care because this affects all females, young and old

I care because this affects all females, young and old.

I’m vocal on social media

I’ve lost friends, been kicked out of groups

Vanessa, Australia

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My belief in free speech is not only to protect my right to speak, but also to HEAR

I’m concerned about the loss of sex-based rights to safety and security for women and girls, which were long fought for. Also, being asked to lie and to deny reality in order for others to feel more comfortable, whilst seeing those rights being taken away. My belief in free-speech is not only to protect my right to speak, but also to HEAR.

I’m ashamed that my activities have been limited to anonymous comments online, eg. When asked my ‘gender’ in an online form, I fill in “My sex is female”. I’m sure that I would lose friends if I discussed it with them, but I am getting more and more frustrated.

The bravest thing I’ve done has been to attend a public event where gender-critical feminists discussed the dangers of trans-activism.

Since it seems that the only response to such discussions is to scream ‘BIGOT” at those who might question trans-activism, I am ashamed to say that I haven’t really expressed myself publicly to friends.

As a life-long left-wing progressive (as are my friends), I’m horrified that i have allowed myself to not even bring this up in social situations. I’ve seen the negative consequences for those who are braver than me, and I have allowed my fear to silence me.

D, Life-long liberal, which now seems to be a dirty word…, Canada

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I can’t stand that women have been harassed for defending sex based rights

I can’t stand that women have been harassed for defending sex based rights. That children are being fast-tracked on dangerous treatments. Or that sexual orientation is even being attacked. The behavior of the activists is often abusive and manipulative, and it is downright frightening and angering at times.

I post and share things on social media all the time. I have signed and shared a few petitions and I have tried to speak up about it to people in real life, with mixed results.

Online I have been called a bigot, a terf, a Nazi, a white supremacist, I have been sent obscene images. My accounts have been reported. In real life I have fought with friends over this.

Allison, Haven’t lost my mind yet due to terminal wokeness but getting there, USA

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I ran a marathon while carrying a flag that said “SAVE WOMEN’S SPORTS”

As a woman, I want privacy and safety when I use public bathrooms, locker rooms, etc. I want sports to be fair; I want young female athletes to benefit from them the same way I did, and I want elite female athletes I look up to to have the wins they deserve.

I fiercely believe that everyone has the right to choose the circumstances under which people of the opposite sex see them undressed as well as the circumstances under which they see members of the opposite sex undressed. This is true for situations that affect me, such as public bathroom usage and the sex of the doctor who performs my pap smear, as well as for situations that don’t and hopefully never will, such as having to share a prison shower with a biological male or being pressured to wax male genitalia.

I will steadfastly defend this right to choose not only for myself, but for women everywhere.

I ran a marathon while carrying a flag that said “SAVE WOMEN’S SPORTS” as well as the dictionary definition of the word “woman” (“ADULT HUMAN FEMALE”).

I’ve written to my government representatives. I’ve researched and written speeches, which I’ve delivered at school board meetings of a school district that opened locker rooms to opposite-sex students. I’ve attended demonstrations at athletic events of that school district, distributing flyers and holding up large signs/banners.

I boycott companies who support gender identity ideology. I’ve written to those companies to explain why I’m boycotting them, and I explain my boycotts to others. I’ve signed petitions and used social media to urge others to do the same. I’ve given an interview for a feminist radio show and written an op-ed that was recently printed in a newspaper.

I have been dogpiled on on social media. I’ve been called garbage/trash, a TERF, sh*t, a c*nt, and “the f*cking genitals police.” Someone commented on one of my posts with a picture of an anime girl pointing a gun at the viewer captioned, “SHUT THE FUCK UP TERF.” I’ve been told to STFU, and someone commented on one of my posts with a picture of super glue captioned, “Finally, a line of lipstick made exclusively for TERFs.” Someone commented on one of posts with a meme including an emoji holding a knife that read, “Why be transphobic when you can just DIE.” I was told to “die alone.” Someone told me they hoped I lost “every sponsor or scholarship [I] ever apply for.”

For objecting to male people competing in female sports, I was accused of being “mediocre,” “a terrible athlete,” and told I needed to train harder. Many people insulted the way my parents had raised me, and I was told that I shouldn’t have kids myself. I’ve been accused of having “internalized misoyogny[sic]” and of having the patriarchy “ingrained deep” in me.

Emily Kaht, Just a normal woman who’s finally had enough, USA

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As a survivor of trauma from a trans woman, this matters to me because I want other women to be safe

As a survivor of trauma from a trans woman, this matters to me because I want other women to be safe and to recognize red flags.

I have advocated for female only safe spaces. I have talked about my biological reality, the health issues I face due to being born female. I have spoken about the dangers I am subjected to due to being born female.

I have gotten a few private messages from long time friends who are trans asking me if I’m transphobic.

KP, USA

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I am a victim of domestic abuse, I want single sex spaces to be protected

I am a victim of domestic abuse, I want single sex spaces to be protected.

I have used twitter to amplify the voices of others, and to defend my position and challenge people on their’s.

I have had some mild abuse on twitter.

Jo , domestic abuse survivor

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Today a trans women came out at work. They won’t be dressing as a woman all the time as it “wouldn’t be practical in their job”.

I am primarily concerned about safety of women in single sexed spaces e.g. Refuges, toilets. Secondly I am concerned about women’s sports. Women’s sports exist to provide a level playing field and allowing trans women with women to compete distorts this level playing field. It will have a negative impact on the careers and livelihoods of women athletes which is already underfunded and under resourced compared to mens sports.

I have talked with family and friends when the topic arises but not done anything practically.

I care because just today a trans women came out at work.  However they won’t be dressing as a woman all the time as it “wouldn’t be practical in their job”.  It has made me so unaccountably angry.  Putting on femalehood like a costume and then taking it off when it isn’t practical. 

An acknowledgement that women have it worse but doing nothing about it and just taking the “good” bits.

I am concerned about consequences at work if I was to be more vocal, particularly as my twitter account is mainly used for work, but not exclusively.

I would be fired

Anna

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The silencing of women on this issue is driven by men

I care because I worry about the future for girls and women and I’m outraged about the slow creep of corporate subservience to organisations like Mermaids and Stonewall.

As a little girl I would have expected my Mum (and Dad) to stand up for my rights and although I don’t have kids I have an 8 year old niece. Why should she have to get changed into her swimming costume in front of men masquerading as women? Why should she have to compete against boys masquerading as girls if she chooses to play competitive sport.

The silencing of women on this issue is driven by men and I say this as a heterosexual woman who is in a loving marriage. But if you speak up you are dismissed as transphobic: possibly the laziest insult around these days. I’m increasingly uneasy about being a member of my company’s ERG LGBT group which is aligning itself with Stonewall and all its dubious misogynistic views. Lesbians are being erased and expected to accept male bodied partners. Children being told they are a different gender and young ones being given puberty blockers. A very frightening world.

I am regularly educating and raising awareness with my friends. Only last night two gay friends who are big Harry Potter fans were saying they were confused and didn’t understand the issues with JK Rowling. They were shocked when I told them the issues. It’s easy to assume that all LGB people know all the facts: many are blissfully unaware.

I would absolutely love if someone in the movement could create some materials which people like me in corporations could share internally to raise concerns about the likes of Stonewall who have a jack boot on the neck of big companies in the UK. Most organisations have an internal ‘speak up’ whistleblower mechanism which can be used if people are concerned about anonymity. Not really for me.

I’m a confident and articulate person. I tend to find that those who I speak to are  totally unaware of the facts and when they hear them they are horrified. I suspect many people are watching on the sidelines terrified to be labelled transphobic especially those in the public eye.

Lou, A left leaning feminist who can no longer tolerate the erosion of womankind